Who failed, it's you or me?

I learned from you, "how a man can make you feel low and ugly."

I learned "how a man can show, you are not worthy,"

             I learned "how a man can leave you for his growth in the profession, for his parents and social responsibility."

I learned "how a man can kiss you without loving."

 

But I failed to learn "how a man can show his love" from you,

I failed to learn "how a man respects his woman" from you.

 

But I still want to try,

Still, I'm studying you to understand better,

Always remembering those moments, we spend together,

But it's becoming even more complicated to me.

 

Why do I feel like you grabbed me, not caressed me?

I feel like this time I understood you "why you are angry and irritated at me," but I failed whenever I think this way.

I'm failing in making you love me, even though I'm changing myself to adapt to you.

I sometimes feel like I'm failing to be a woman.

 

People say women are more complex to understand,

But no one wants to accept that even women found it difficult to understand a man's mind.

 

I wonder who failed it's you or me, and the answer is, "it's we."